Love is in the air… must be Spring after all.
In Spring it’s not just a young man’s fancy that lightly turns to thoughts of love, the ladies’ do to. Read on for Top Tips To Find Your Ideal Man Online
Written by: Sharon Vickery – The Dating Coach and Author of ‘The Secrets To Finding & Keeping An Amazing Man’
Well before you dive straight in and open that laptop on a Sunday afternoon when all your mates are busy and you’re home alone I just want you to STOP and slow things down a little.
Unless you’re ready to date again, unless you’ve taken a closer look at the unfinished business in all of your relationships and the patterns that you’ve created with men, no amount of online dating is going to help. In fact, it may just make you more despondent and feel like giving up altogether.
I want you to avoid that so first take the time to get yourself in order, after all I’m guessing you want a great guy that’s pretty sorted himself, so the same will be true for him. The good guys want a woman that’s fun, intelligent and one that has her ‘act’ together.
Once you’re ready to find him then here are a few top tips to get you started
- Get clear on how great you are and what the key qualities you’ll be bringing to this new man.
- Understand what qualities and values are important for you in the man you’re looking for.
- Learn how to express who you are in your profile to inspire the RIGHT man to contact you.
- Learn what photos you MUST put up to have the right people contacting you for the right reasons.
- Create the right mindset to start dating online and remember, there are some great guys out there, and some not so great ones granted, but you get to weed those out so it’s far safer than meeting someone in a bar.
- Be patient but persistent. Online dating takes time and commitment. Be sure to set aside enough time each week to make this work for you.
- Keep things in balance. Online dating is just one way of finding the right man so continue to go out with friends and enjoy life, after all that’s what will make you attractive to the right man at the end of the day.
- Keep yourself safe. You’ll hear people giving you all sorts of advice and bad stories about online dating, but in the 5 + years I dated online I never felt unsafe. If you use bags of common sense, make sure you speak on the phone at least once before you meet and never go anywhere private until you get to know him, then all should be fine. Above all, use your intuition and if in doubt, back away.
- With over 5 million people dating online in the UK every month, it’s one of the best ways to meet someone special. Apply the same principles to your love life that you do to work and commit to getting the skills that will make this work for you; after all, it’s not something you’re taught at school.
- Finally, be sure to have fun when dating online. It’s a great way to meet lots of fabulous men who are serious about finding a long term partner.
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